Today I was asked if I could be any wild animal which would I choose.
To many peoples surprise I picked a raccoon. You may be thinking “WHAT!? Of all the animals you choose a raccoon?!”
Yes. And you know why?
Raccoons are adaptive. Spent millions developing raccoon proof garbage bins? Give the raccoon a few hours to figure out how to outsmart the road block. Build a subdivision in her habitat? She will figure out how to use your structures to thrive.
There is no obstacle too great and no invention too advanced to outsmart the determined, persistent and intelligent raccoon.
Raccoons are like the toddlers and youth of the human world. A toddler falls COUNTLESS times learning to walk but they don’t throw up their arms and give up because there are too many obstacles in their path. They keep trying until victory is theirs.
When learning to speak toddlers and children don’t stop learning. They intently watch the world around them and soak up information like a sponge, learning words from their environment (whether ideal words or not).
Youth unapologetically pick up figure skating or gymnastics and fall to their knees. Over. And over. But they get back up and try again. As a youth I crashed to the ground on my skates, trying new complicated spins and jumps, more times than I can count.
But I kept going. I knew my goal and I forged forward without blinking an eye.
Be a raccoon. Find the inner child that NEVER GAVE UP.
As adults we seem to become so wrapped up in the opinions of others, and fear of failure, that we would rather be miserable than try to reach new goals and dreams.
“You want to dump $10,000 into starting a new business?!” you can just FEEL the judgemental comments from friends and family.
“You are trying a NEW diet?!” you can predict the harsh tones as you try one more time at reaching your weight loss goals.
“I knew she would fail”, wait, that one is coming from your inner mean girl BEFORE you even start!
Now, let me say this loud and clear for the people in the back:
First, people don’t care as much as your ego has led you to believe.
Second, others opinions of you and what you do are none of your business.
If you fail? News flash. Whatever your goal is you WILL fail. Over and over. Get over it now.
If Sally from Facebook doesn’t like what you are doing with your life? Who cares. It isn’t her life.
If you fall? Great, you will learn what does and doesn’t work, just like the young girl does trying a new jump on the balance beam.
Stop caring so much about failure and what others think….
And start caring more about the quality of your short life.
Stop caring what you inner mean girl says and get out there and
Start proving her WRONG.
A raccoon doesn’t apologize for out thinking the special garbage bin you bought in under an hour.
A child doesn’t apologize for trying 100 times to get their first step.
The 10 year old doesn’t care what you think when she falls off the balance beam after trying for the 20th time to land a new flip.
Friend, STOP APOLOGIZING. To yourself and others. Just go out there and start living.